Privacy, in plain words

Short version: your birthdays are yours. We don’t sell, rent or share them. No ads, no trackers.

What we keep

• Your username, email, birthday (year optional) and what you add to your profile.
• The people you add: names, birthdays and any notes. Notes are only ever visible to you.
• A log of what your connected agents read, for 90 days, so you can check it.

Who sees what

🌍 Public: anyone with your link. 👥 Groups: people in groups you share with. 🔒 Private: only you, and agents you allowed. Your address is private by default and shared only when you approve a request, for 30 days. Your birth year is hidden unless you turn it on.

Email

Only your sign-in links and the reminders you turned on. At most one reminder email a day. No marketing, no tracking pixels.

Imports

Files you upload (.csv, .vcf, .ics) are read in your browser session and thrown away.

Your controls

• Export everything any time (Settings › Export).
• Revoke any agent instantly (Agents).
• Delete your account: gone after 7 days, cancel any time before.
• Run it yourself: it’s open source.

Updated Oct 14, 2026